PostADay2011 question yesterday was :
What would you tell yourself 10 years ago?
I’d share these hard-learned lessons:
- Don’t waste another day fretting – what is going to happen, will happen. Fretting will waste some of the precious time you have ahead of you in your relationship.
- When people offer to help, they are saying “I love you.”
Never turn them down.
Welcome their help, invite them in and share the load — the road is going to be so bumpy that you’ll be happy to have others along with you!
- Communicate your thoughts – talk about your fears, share your dreams, be honest. Put the words in your mouth and speak them. Be vulnerable, be human, be kind – to yourself as well as others.
- This is the only moment that counts. Let people love you and love them back completely.